This woman was seeking advice from Redditors. Her husband called their unborn baby ugly. She’s furious, but is now unsure if she overreacted due to hormones.
The Happy Couple Is Expecting a Child
This couple is expecting their first child together in three weeks, but the original poster (OP) already has an eight-year-old from a previous relationship.
An Overthinker and No Filter
OP, who has an overthinking nature and always carefully considers her words before speaking, finds it challenging to deal with her husband’s tendency to blurt out his thoughts without considering their impact on others.
The Potential of Being on the Spectrum
She says the husband, age 30, doesn’t seem to understand social cues and tends to be awkward, but he refuses to seek professional help for it.
Their First 4D Ultrasound
OP recently went for a 4D ultrasound, which clearly revealed the baby’s facial features.
When she shared the images with her husband, she was excited to show him the photos, but he immediately commented the baby was ugly.
His Comment Infuriated Her
She became angry, refused to show him any more pictures, and asked him to leave the room.
She Says Mean Things…Why Can’t He?
Her husband didn’t understand why his comment upset her, claiming she often called the baby names and said things such as “this little antagonist won’t get out of my ribs,” when she was in pain.
She’s Standing Her Ground
OP disagrees, stating his comment was hurtful and insensitive, unlike her comments, which were expressions of frustration.
Could She Be Overreacting?
OP admits she might be overreacting due to her pregnancy hormones, and asks if she is the one at fault.
The Impact of Not Having a Proper Diagnosis
She also notes her husband might be on the autism spectrum, as both have discussed the possibility, but he has refused to get tested for fear of receiving a diagnosis.
She’s Hurt Her Husband Would Say That
Despite some comments suggesting babies are commonly referred to as “ugly,” OP says the husband’s response was inappropriate, and she fears he might say it again when the baby is born.
The Fear This Could Be a Future Problem
While some may consider his comment normal, OP found it hurtful and fears he might say it again when the baby is born.
He Was Named After a God
Recently, a Reddit user shared a story where he legally changed his name, and as a result, his father threatened him. Here’s the full story. His Father Gave Him a Name That Resulted in Him Being Bullied, He Legally Changed It, and Now His Father Is Demanding He Change It Back
He’s a Family Man
Reddit has again provided a source of entertaining reading. Recently on a subthread, a happily married man told the story about a recent visit to the gym. He Went to the Gym for a Work-Out and Took off His Wedding Ring, She Saw Him, Assumed He Fancied Her and Has a Meltdown
Trashy Habits
In a neighborhood plagued by inconsiderate neighbors, one woman took matters into her own hands – or rather, paws. Her Neighbors Were Abusive to Her Dog, so She Decided to Give Them a Taste of His Fur!
Bucky’s Parking Predicament
In this encounter, Bucky, a veteran visiting a hardware store, finds himself in a parking dispute with a self-proclaimed Captain America. Let’s find out how this entertaining showdown unfolds in the battle for parking supremacy. A Guy Tried to Shame This Veteran Out of His Parking Space, so He Got Some Revenge
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